A young woman in Kentucky wrote to the Dear Abby advice column, asking what she should do to help her younger sister, who appears to be anorexic. "Marni," as she calls her sister, has lost a significant amount of weight and is "literally skin and bones," though she says she fine. The sister doesn't know what to do, and their mother seems oblivious to the problem.

"Dear Anxious: Marni is NOT fine.... Throwing up after meals and taking laxatives are symptoms of a severe, life-threatening eating disorder... You should tell your mother immediately what she has been doing because her life could depend on it."

Anorexia has one of the highest mortality rates of any mental illness, though sufferers rarely get the treatment they need. If you suspect that a friend or family member has an eating disorder, get help right away. Source: Arizona Daily Star

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Teens who struggle with eating disorders need the help and support of their parents. But they need help and support from their friends as well. It can be difficult, however, to know how to be supportive.

"If you think your friend has an eating disorder, try to help first by expressing concern. Talk about her health and happiness rather than her eating behaviors. Be patient and supportive, as a lot of praise is needed and talents pointed out."

It's also important not to nag your friend about her eating habits, or dwell in conversations that focus on her body image or weight. Read more at C-N.com.

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